I agree totally with Puppy Mark. You should go and see your doctor to discuss your depression. It doesn't have the stigma attached to it that it once did. It's a recognised medical condition and you could benefit greatly from taking the ADs.

Don't give up Mark. Your W seems to be an expert at knowing exactly how to hurt you. Somehow you have to take that power away from her. From what you've been saying, I feel as though you should avoid talking to her at all. Is there some neutral place you can pick the kids up from instead of going to her? She seems to goad you in to a fight every time she sees you and it's not good for you at all. You have to find the strength to be a great dad for your kids. You don't have to be in work to be a great dad, you don't have to be married to be a great dad. You just have to be there for your kids when they need you and give them all the love you possibly can.

Try to be strong Mark.

Kev


Me: 32, Wife: 22
Son: 2
Married: 2 years
Separated: January 5th 2009

Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.