I just feel as though all the fantastic advice I have been given by people like you is being wasted by me. I want to DR, 180's, GAL etc, but then when sandi posts her brilliant post I then feel the 180's I identified I needed to do would be wasted as I am allowing my wife to walk all over me and sandi suggests I 'man up' and do not allow her to walk all over me.
I don't want any tablets in the house as I sometimes have an urge to go the medicine cabinet looking for tablets to take an OD with.
Do I drop all the 180's as these point to restoring some calm, balance and change, or by manning up I can see the negativity and anger increasing. I am very confused.
Last edited by markhaving probs; 05/01/0909:19 AM.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
