Just thought I'd come on and do a bit of journaling. Not really had anything much to say about my sitch lately.
I had a great sleep last night and for once never had bad dreams about my W. Can't remember having any good ones either but I can live with that. I woke up feeling really refreshed for the first time in ages.
I have Wee Man this weekend which I'm looking forward to. I've also asked my Mum to come in and stay tomorrow night because she wants to spend some time with him too. It'll be fine to have the company for myself too to be honest. Next weekend my W is taking Wee Man away to visit her brother in another part of Scotland. She'll be away from the Saturday until the Wednesday so I'll not get him on my regular Tuesday and Wednesday nights that week. We did say we'd be flexible though so I guess this is one of those times. I'm going to hopefully get past to bath him the night before they leave though and then see him the night he comes home. I don't want to go a whole week between visits. I'm sure she'll be ok about that.
I'm sort of wondering if there's anything else I should be doing to try and save my M. I know that right now I'm probably doing the right things and there's going to be a lot of waiting to do to see if I can see any real improvements but I just wonder if there's anything else. I should really contact a DB Coach again but I've just bought myself a whole load of new furniture so I'm going to wait till my finances recover from that a bit. Any ideas from posters here will be greatly appreciated though. I'm not really looking for GAL ideas because to be honest I think I have that covered. I'm struggling to find free time at the moment to do anything else. What I'm looking for is some clever ideas on how to get some kind of positive reaction from my W.
My FIL came past on Wednesday night to watch the football and share a bottle of wine. It was really pleasant to catch up. I almost miss my in-laws as much as I miss my W.
Anyhoo, better get back to work.
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.