Thanks AJ, Yes, it's 1:30 am and just got done talking with H. I feel like I'm having an out of body experience...Everything's been going smooth-I haven't brought up the OW, I haven't even brought up our R. But I was just casually watchin "The Office" tonight and H asked me to turn it off, he needs to talk. So, 3 hours later, here's the scoop: He says he's leaning more towards the divorce now (this is THREE WEEKS of me being an angel to him!). We go back and forth over who made who unhappy and why we should work on it. He doesn't love me anymore. Not ILYJNILWY.....NO! He just doesn't love me at all!!! So, my instincts kick in and I know there's something going on with this EA. So, of course I ask about it (can you blame me). Turns out he has met her and says he has feelings for her that he can't see having for me.I asked if he's slept with her and he says he has thought about it... This is after ONE month!! We've been together almost 12 years-since I was 17 years old!! Anyway, we decided to really live seperate now. He's moving his stuff to the basement and we're splitting our time with D2. Which just kills me becuase she loves when we're both around Oh, god I'm just a ball of tears tongight. I'm so mad at him for doing this, but I would still stay married to him. Please help!!!!!!!
Oh, god I'm just a ball of tears tongight. I'm so mad at him for doing this, but I would still stay married to him. Please help!!!!!!!