Hey deadman, it sounds like you are coming to the realization that you need to just work on you and let her be for the time being. Breaking the codependency cycle is hard; especially when you are the one that is codependent. Heck, anything outside of our comfort zone is hard.
It's nice that your ILs are sympathetic, but don't count on that lasting very long. As the sitch drags on, blood tends to be thicker than water and the ILs usually start siding with blood. It sucks, but it's all part of the game.
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