Well, I'm a lady, and I have to say I wish my husband was a little more forceful and direct in the gettin' busy department. His tentative, sometimes hesitant moves are kind of a turn off. When he's strong and confident and direct--either by action or words--THAT'S when I get all tingly. And if he's started it early in the day...well, let me tell you, after that simmers in my brain all day long, I'm ready to go when I get home.

I think it comes down to confidence and strength. I find the "manly" side of my husband sexy.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!