I think he is controlling and/or just could not be alone in his apartment. He was living with another woman when he met my W and when his girlfriend found out about my W she left him and then OM kept pushing W to move in with him. Not sure how independent OM or W are but this is where they are now.

They think I should have dumped her a$$ and filed for D when she dropped the bomb. One dad even told me that if I take W back that he would gather up a posse with pitch forks and torches and come to my house and remove W just like they did in Frankenstein \:\) If I mention that I would like to build a new M with W they think I'm crazy but I try to tell them that I would not just let her come back. I would have boundaries and we would have to work real hard to build a new R and then a better M. They think I'm too nice and she will walk all over me, however, I have changed and continue to grow so I will be better prepared to have a backbone and not let her just come back without determining what caused her to look outside of our M.

Today was a fairly good day. After work went on hour walk, then came home and make steaks on the George Foreman grill, then we had brownie sundaes. My parents came over as I needed to borrow their van again so I had S15 drive us to their house to drop them off and he is doing so well with the driving and I'm proud of him \:\) In between all of this had to log into work to answer some emails and also did a couple loads of laundry. All-in-all a good day.
Thinking about W at different points of the day and missing her but I know I'm doing a little better each day - thanks {{runningoutoftime}} for keeping up with my sitch. Hope you are doing well too.


Me-44
WAW-42 (ILYBNILWY)
S-16
S-14
M-10/17/1992 T23
Met OM 10/10/08; Bomb 12/27/08; Moved in with OM 01/27/09
Me stronger and happier everyday!