I think he is controlling and/or just could not be alone in his apartment. He was living with another woman when he met my W and when his girlfriend found out about my W she left him and then OM kept pushing W to move in with him. Not sure how independent OM or W are but this is where they are now.
They think I should have dumped her a$$ and filed for D when she dropped the bomb. One dad even told me that if I take W back that he would gather up a posse with pitch forks and torches and come to my house and remove W just like they did in Frankenstein If I mention that I would like to build a new M with W they think I'm crazy but I try to tell them that I would not just let her come back. I would have boundaries and we would have to work real hard to build a new R and then a better M. They think I'm too nice and she will walk all over me, however, I have changed and continue to grow so I will be better prepared to have a backbone and not let her just come back without determining what caused her to look outside of our M.
Today was a fairly good day. After work went on hour walk, then came home and make steaks on the George Foreman grill, then we had brownie sundaes. My parents came over as I needed to borrow their van again so I had S15 drive us to their house to drop them off and he is doing so well with the driving and I'm proud of him In between all of this had to log into work to answer some emails and also did a couple loads of laundry. All-in-all a good day. Thinking about W at different points of the day and missing her but I know I'm doing a little better each day - thanks {{runningoutoftime}} for keeping up with my sitch. Hope you are doing well too.
Me-44 WAW-42 (ILYBNILWY) S-16 S-14 M-10/17/1992 T23 Met OM 10/10/08; Bomb 12/27/08; Moved in with OM 01/27/09 Me stronger and happier everyday!