Renee, we've all been there to some extent. I think you still have your cart and horse backwards! Whether he is coming back or not, you have to get yourself together. That's going to take some time. Only then are you going to be ready to have him or any other man in your life! The beauty of it is you do the same thing whether he is coming back or not!
Should you date? Right now, I'd say no. Not because he might come back, but because you aren't in a good place yourself. As BND said, you are in a spot now where you could be easy prey for some men. Wait. When you are ready, you'll be ready. What your XH does or doesn't do isn't even an issue.
