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Ok guys help me out here and tell me what is wrong with me. BE NICE!
I am getting over my xh day by day, but the loniness is getting to me. Why is it that I have to have a man in my life? Why cant I just be happy right now with ME?
I want attention right now from the opposite sex. WHY is this?
Why cant I just be satisfied with me for awhile.
Is it because I am scared I am getting old and no one will ever want me again?


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Maybe you are going through MLC yourself?

A counselor or life coach would sure be a good thing to look into right now.

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Kerry thats no even funny.
I just HATE being alone. I want a family sooooo bad.
I have been by myself now for 7 months and I am tired of it.
I want to cuddle again.

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Originally Posted By: sunshinelewis
Ok guys help me out here and tell me what is wrong with me. BE NICE!
I am getting over my xh day by day, but the loniness is getting to me. Why is it that I have to have a man in my life? Why cant I just be happy right now with ME?
I want attention right now from the opposite sex. WHY is this?
Why cant I just be satisfied with me for awhile.
Is it because I am scared I am getting old and no one will ever want me again?

I think these are great questions for you to ask yourself! Ive' gotten that feeling, that you are afraid it is him, or nothing, and that you can't handle nothing. But, you have it right! You should be working to be satified with you for a while. That's how you can heal.

Renee, you are not getting old. Heal from this, and then your life can take you to great places.

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Originally Posted By: sunshinelewis
Kerry thats no even funny.
I just HATE being alone. I want a family sooooo bad.
I have been by myself now for 7 months and I am tired of it.
I want to cuddle again.

I was serious - the divorce seems to have affected your outlook on life and that is what I would call a mid life crisis considering your age.

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Jeff I really dont have to have HIM as much as I have to have a FAMILY again.
I want to be held and I want to be wanted again. I miss that so much. It dont neccessarily have to be him. I just want to be happy again.


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I sometimes get to the point where I feel like yelling, OK SOMEONE ANYONE please give me affection. I dont want to settle for anyone. BUT I want to be loved.


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BND did you have these feelings?


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Renee,

I will not answer any more of your questions until you have gone back and read every single one of your threads, post by post.

You are not listening to a single word anyone tells you.


There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
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