I was thinking of giving a card from me that just said I thought she was a great mother and I appreciated what she does for our kids.

Is that pushy/pursuing?

Showing appreciation is one of my 180's but I don't want to overdo it.

Me-38
W-44
D8 & D6
together '95, Wed '97,
Bomb 11/18/08
Still in same house

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