I just try to step back and see how I'm really feeling now before I do something. NMMNG and NUTS were both really helpful in teaching me how to own my feelings and just put them out there. It's still hard though but I think it gets easier the longer you do it.


Me: 38
Her: 28
D3
Married: Oct. 2005
Bomb: Jan. 2009

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1776293#Post1776293