Ok guys help me out here and tell me what is wrong with me. BE NICE! I am getting over my xh day by day, but the loniness is getting to me. Why is it that I have to have a man in my life? Why cant I just be happy right now with ME? I want attention right now from the opposite sex. WHY is this? Why cant I just be satisfied with me for awhile. Is it because I am scared I am getting old and no one will ever want me again?