Ok I get it. That has been my question all along. I didnt understand how me looking gave my less chances with reconcil. As far as interacting with him or talking on phone with him. It aint gonna happen because he REFUSES to see me or talk with me. I dont try to make him either. I dont see him talking to me anytime soon. I would love to talk with someone that has been through a similiar situation. Where their spouse of years want to pretend they dont exist anymore. Can you think of anybody that has been through this? I know lots here have been through alot but has anybody been in my situation, where their is NO CONTACT at all. Where the spouse can NOT get over the ANGER? If so I would love to speak with them. I can get past the I want a divorce, but the not wanting to ever speak again after 20 years I am having a hard time with.
