You are doing well...it doesn't matter the reason she comes back as long as the affair is over and she comes back. if that is what you want. This is not going to be easy and you very well may find you can't stand her and want her gone.
Honestly, I'm not sure if I want her to come back right now(FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE attitude). I know it's not going to be easy.
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I too am curious on how she acts tonight. Not a good time for you to get emotional...keep an eye on your daughter.
No worries, I'm not feeling emotional tonight anyways.
Funny thing is she just called a little while ago--she was supposed to bring dinner for us--she offered. She said I just got done doing xyz and I'm running behind what did you guys want for dinner. I said I don't care whatever. She said that doesnt help, I'm not offering this sh@# again. Ok, I said, don't worry about it I'll get dinner. Ok she says, I'll eat here. She said I'll be over around 8. Ok, sounds good bye.
What a surprise--her being late that is and not being reliable. Whatever, I don't care, I ate and I'm going to relax this weekend. It's probably better that she's coming over later anyway as there will be less chance for a relationship talk which I don't want right now. No pressure, no pressure.
Last edited by AFWAW; 05/01/0912:09 AM.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
