Renee, sweetheart, we are telling you to stop looking, even though we looked when other told us not too, just like we tell you, the difference is...we did stop looking.
You're right...he is not your husband.
You asked me on my thread about how long to hope.
Forever...as long as you want too as long as you can...BUT it makes more sense to hope when you are doing the things that allow hope to live. If your doing things to make hope impractical...then, you're killing off your chances, you are the one that makes it silly to hope for a future that you are ensuring WON'T happen.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
