Virginia thank you for responding. I have so many questions for you. Fist I would love to know, if you dont mind me getting a little personal, what attracted you at 24 to a 40 year old man? My xh is marrying a 26 year old woman and he is 41. I noticed him looking at younger women and flirting, even in fron of me, a few years ago. What exactly is the attraction. My xh doesnt have money. So what could it be and will it last, in your opinion. They only met 2 or 3 months ago.