My Story -- Advice for a Left Behind Spouse

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Michelle recommends you accept some invitations but not all. This might be a good opportunity to tell her that you can't. You already have plans but would love to do it another night. Be vague about what your doing and plan what you will say ahead. Don't lie though. Actually plan to do something. Do you have a friend you can go see even for a few minutes? Then you can say I'm going to see a friend. Or do you have errands you can run or something.

I know it will be hard to miss an opportunity to see her.

Have you re-read DB/DR lately? It always motivates me and gives me clarity on what my next step is.