hooper, I understand this as well. I still plan to go see what's what on Sat evening. I agree about the no contact order as well. I think my wife is waiting to see if I get promoted as this gives her an opportunity to come back and start fresh. Probably not the right reason, I'm thinking. I have reflected a lot on what everyone here has said today, especially Gucci. I actually had a pretty good day for a change. We'll see how the interaction goes tonight with the wife as she is spending the night so she can leave early in the morning to take my D on her field trip to Atlanta. I have a lot of stuff to keep me busy around the house. Hopefully it will work out well and I can avoid any relationship talks.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!