Well, if it makes you feel better, Jack, I did call yesterday after he had offered me a ride to work (that I declined) to say:

If that ride includes a nooner, I would like to ammend my refusal.



The one thing we have going for this is most certainly this:
He is NOT going to get it anywhere near as good somewhere else as he does here. I am completely confident that he knows this, too. And, that says a lot, since I have little confidence in anything.