I had this also, it is really hard for me because I do not like conflict. It is how you handle conflict and not trying to avoid it. Understand.
Burt
Me too - same problem avoiding conflict.
Also been working on it. My IC focused more on root causes and feelings than just ways to handle conflict better, but I found N.U.T.S. and "No More Mr. Nice Guy" helpful. Any other suggestions from either of you?
I'm always open to new ideas.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.