Validation is so important in any sort of relationship. I would venture to guess she gets angry when you validate her feelings now because it is what she wanted all along and never got it. Now that you are giving her validation its "too late" in her mind so it ticks her off.
Nevermind that though, validation is important no matter what so I would say keep it up.
What do you think about this?
..."Remember her anger is good means she is still conflicted. Sometimes when I was getting my ears pinned back I would smile on the inside because I knew I still had a shot." - Coach
What do you think about it too, dburt?
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
