Oh...I think I went over that some in my previous thread. Typical Nice Guy stuff. Put aside my wants and needs for her through the marriage and was scared to express my feelings because I didn't want any conflict under the assumption it would drive her away. Ironically I think that doing that was a major part of driving her away....weird how that works out. I've been working on this issue with my IC for awhile now and am getting over my fear of this and now own and express my feelings without fearing the outcome. It's really liberating...


Me: 38
Her: 28
D3
Married: Oct. 2005
Bomb: Jan. 2009

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1776293#Post1776293