Learning to Detach

[kjensen]

H and I practiced our active listening homework at lunch. Things seemed good. H told me the school counselor had emailed him to check in and we talked about how our girls were doing. H copied me in to his response to the counselor and her is what he said about us:

" Time seems to be helping the girls somewhat, although I don't see my wife and reconciling, and that will be another issue. "

My breathe was knocked out of me. I should expect this from a person in MLC, right? My H knows I will see this as he sent it to me too. Does this mean his ambivalence and conflict are just buying him time?
I shouldn't take this personally? I was feeling positive and then this statement to an utter stranger who sees our children blows me away.
I'm guessing I shouldn't do anything, but need confirmation from someone who has been here before..Help?!