How long will the D take in your state? Is the paperwork filed? Are you moving out or is she moving out? Do you have a house to sell? You'll have to figure that all out. What's the time frame you guys are looking at?

Well, of course she is out and will be dating! You guys are getting a divorce. I imagine she'll want to find someone else quickly. The good thing is when she does, it will make it easier for her to get through this, and that will help the divorce process overall.

It's great to see you in positive spirits. I'm hoping for the best for you and that this all goes smoothly.


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