Yea, avoidance is clearly the mantra of someone who knows they are doing wrong.
Can you imagine how awkward he is going to feel to call you. I am sure he senses the changes in you and clearly doens't know how to react to that. I think you have successfully given him a WTH feeling. Which is a good thang! Keep it going.
I can only imagine the chit he is going to enter back into.. oh yea, that's the real world... between work and BIL. He really sc*wed the pooch on this one.
Peace be with you.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too