Thanks for the input Virginia. I do feel more calm and at least for today a sense that there really isn't much I can do. So that is what I'll strive for. I'm trying to keep my sights set for the long haul. I do think my H must be working through some things to come up with those statements you quoted.
Thanks again!
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.