PMA, IF AFWAW handles this correctly she will do whatever it takes to make it work. That isn't an issue. The real issue is when AFWAW is going to show her that he can and WILL reject and not accept this type of behavior not only from her, but from any woman that is so luck to have him. It is WHEN HE gets to that point that he will understand where I am at on this issue. It is when he applies it that he will see the fruits of his new strength. It will be when she FEELS it from him that this could turn around.
He should NOT take her back until she says she WANTS to come back and that she is sorry and has made a huge mistake and loves him and has always loved him and etc. etc...
He won't get her to that point UNTIL he does what I have been advising. It is his move here first. Stay fearful, paralyzed and waiting (and not get her back) OR get busy living and start going out on the town and letting loose while he holds the line on her about chasing, pursuing and offering too much information about his "feelings".. He knows what I am talking about here, but his confidence is shot. This is why he needs to quit following his fleeting feelings and follow logic and reality.
She WILL do whatever it takes if he accepts NOTHING less than that.
