Hey Tango! Sounds like D is not as peaceful as hoped. Sorry to hear that. I truly am.
I suspect that if you give it time, it will eventually die down. He won't be able to keep this up for ever. He'll eventually get distracted by something else. Hang in there.
Glad to hear about your other man. Sounds like you're having some fun there and learning to be friends with a person who would like that. Take your time and enjoy it. You deserve some happiness
Take care, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."