Cinderella...lol I alwasy call her Cinders sooooo...I don't know her full name here, but you cannot miss it, she is the story you want and for you...an example to aspire to.
I don't think your H is in MLC...but I'm not in your shoes, so I'm not sure that MLC is the place to post. Our advice usually falls on deaf ear anyway. Right now we could tell you that it woul dbest for you to breath in and out and I'm not sure you would...or you will say I know...but...
Lewis,
You want to talk to this woman, who is not the OW, sorry, once... One, REALLY bad idea and I doubt you can do anything just once.
You are one confrontation away from a restraining order...
Lewis, you were asking me question about why your H did some things because I was a WAH once. I cannot answer for your H, I did what I did to someone who wasn't you. There are similarities...but I cannot answer for your husband. For me there absolutely was a breaking point a point of no return, and I have not looked back, ever.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
