I realize I have to go back to first principals. When she told me about the other guy (who she started dating after filing for divorce) and her friend told me I needed to realize my marriage was over, I beleived what I saw and what I was told. If there is even a slim chance I need to get back to db'ing. I just can't decide if I should be focused on being upbeat and good witht he kids around her, or if I should be going dark. Any thoughts appreciated.
