Thank your for all your good wishes.

I've taken you advice Naej and changed the title of my thread.

On Tuesday I found out from S16 that H had gone away on business over night and left him and D13 in the charge of OW. I already knew that this had happened in respect of S16 but I'm not happy about him leaving D13 with her. She is young and impressionable and I don't want an adultress to become one of her role models.

You will probably all tell me I'm over reacting (and you are probably right) but this is a real and important issue for me.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15