See? I do have communication problems! The rest of the story was that we make out like teenagers in the driveway, go in the house and have sex, and then I pout when he has to leave, or when he leaves without making new plans. I tend to stay away from the TMI.
I don't think this really changes much-- other than to give ya'll another reason to 2x4 me- but we actually have had a pretty good sex life all along. I have stopped because of the other circumstances...if I hadn't it would be a 2, 3, 4+ times a week thing, I am sure.
