She was getting encourgement from me to do so OT. Still will until she tells me to stop.
You don't post here because you want to be divorce, you post here because you want to still be married.
From my point of view Pam has communications problems and so does her husband, and without communication there is no relationship. If both of them are too timid to speak up...then one of them must...and I'm going for the one I can talk to...unless someone wants to drop me her H's email?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK