"I saw her tonite at my 3 year old's baseball. I tried to be cordial and polite but it was hard as just seeing her hurt."
Why does that bother you? She's been claiming that you are the cause of her pain. Let her go through it. Try not to show anything on your face when dealing with her.
DO NOT call her to see how she is. She has to experience what it's like when you're not there as her crutch.
Why it hurt me is this whole situation of not giving us a chance. Seeing her is a brutal reminder of the mess we got ourselves in. It's also a reminder of the impact to the kids and all of our lives.
That's why it's painful....
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
