Yes, same thing! "i love you only as the mother of my child". How painful!!
When he first told me he wanted D, I still tried to hug and kiss him all the time, but I think that pushed me away. I still want to jump all over him and hug and kiss but not unless he truly wants it. So I just wait, try to be kind, not clinging,and hope he has a change of heart.
Me 39 H 42 M 11, T 12 S 10,6 D 3 EA 2007 separated in same home since 3/10/09