That post from Sandi was a godsend in your sitch. Please pay attention to her words. Every one of them is a good idea. I completely agree with everything she said but probably couldn't have articulated it so well. The time now is for you. Learn your patience and forget about reconcilliation for now. That's a long, long term goal.
Let go of the rope.
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.
