Thank you for youe insight. Her Schedual does change weekly and she may have two nights a week till 9 and be on call the rest of the week after two thirty. It is not that I step up to do it for my family, It is that she is a self proffesed lazy person. I am a little overburdended most times with every thing from work, home, and trying to finish my degree. I can ask for assistance but do not recieve it. I am guessing I am not making my points of view known to her or she just really doesnt care about it.
Resentment is invovled to a degree but I do try and show her how much I care for her in various ways from messages after a long day to coking her favorite meals. Usually she doesnt eat them or acknowledge the effort it takes to do things for her not knowing if it going to be accepted.
To answer your question. yes I believe I deserve happiness I am just having trouble understanding the selfishness of some people.
