John, I am so happy you sound optimistic and positive. Woog would be so proud of you
Lan, I agree with Kerry's post a while ago. If you plan to talk or if you cant avoid it, try to make a plan in your head, maybe write it down, figure out what you want and how you think of the future. Of course your heart is not along with your head. I am almost 2 years separated and my heart and head are still apart (for various reasons). She is your wife, you cant just switch off the emotions although I am pretty sure it would make easier if you could... Take it slow, watch your BP and be good to yourself. You are strong man and you are teaching some of us lessons... xxx K
