I know she does this to try and hurt me because the last time I left my xh a voicemail asking him to help with his son a pair of shoes, she put on her myspace that is was very amused and loved by xxxx (xh). She also wrote once that some women need to grow up. Stuff like that, and my xh told me she put that stuff on there to get to me. He told me that himself. She is 26 years old! She answered his phone and told me I COULD NOT speak with him and hung up on me. Yes you are right, I shouldnt look. I dont seem to be able to stop looking. I wish so much that I could. I really dread how she will act after they are married. I believe right now if in an emergency, she WOULD NOT let my xh speak with me. In that case what do I do. (thats what I mean by how far should I let her go)
