I don't know OT. That might be a little too forward at this time (at least saying it like that). I am planning on being aggressive though.

And YES you are right Rob. NO POUTING.. Just a "as if".. In fact I was thinking that even if we did "do something" the next day I would still act "as if"

OT she still has her defensives up. Yes every once in a while she lets them down for a little bit but they pop back up again. Timing is everything. If I can "penetrate" her defensives when they are down just once I think we will be on the road to recovery. I really do think it is a big step for her. Maybe she is afraid that we will end up back where we started (her unhappy)
I am not sure but I am doing a great job of leaving that "wimp" behind and I think it shows.

SOOOO today on the way home from work I get a flat tire..Man what is next?...Tomorrow it going to be a no work day I just know it. Over half the people are leaving and most of the day everyone will be saying their goodbyes and there will be tears.(and I will be getting allot of hugs.. )
A big order came in today at work for a system that I am the only one that knows how to build it. I so feel like saying "Oh well you let me go do it yourself" But I won't I don't want to burn any bridges...

Well it's bed time
Later
Doc

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know