"I saw her tonite at my 3 year old's baseball. I tried to be cordial and polite but it was hard as just seeing her hurt."
Why does that bother you? She's been claiming that you are the cause of her pain. Let her go through it. Try not to show anything on your face when dealing with her.
DO NOT call her to see how she is. She has to experience what it's like when you're not there as her crutch.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.