My personality before going through this would be to react by threatening to stomp her. I would already have got in her face and said "ok, its on". That was the old me, that was how I had been since birth. Not afraid to stand up to anyone. My h and my son was something you didnt mess with. You see, thats how I was when my xh left me. That is why he says he cant trust me because he knows how I was. BUT the key word here is HOW. He has NO CLUE how much I have bitten my tongue and held back. So really I am fighting a battle within myself NOT to react. I know what the outcome will be. I know I could wind up in jail or with a restraining order against me. I know this. It is sooooo hard for me to do NOTHING. I dont think my xh knows what she writes or maybe he does, it doesnt matter I guess. Its like I was fighting a battle with him and now he has a tagged team partner. I feel like I cant win. BUT I know I can. I CAN DO THIS.. I CAN REFRAIN MYSELF.. I CAN DO THIS.. I WILL NOT PLAY HER GAME..
BUT, when do we draw the line with something like this? How far should I let her go?
