Yes, everyone here has been very helpful. Um, well when my H started talking serious about this and then told me about the EA, I panicked! I asked him if he was sure he didn't want to sleep in our bed a couple of nights with him rejecting that. I also, kept telling him how I can change and that we can work this out. But, he's been persistant in saying he's pretty sure he wants a divorce. And then I read DB and DR and decided to use the LRT. And I have changed alot of things about myself and being sweeter to him (for example:getting up every morning to make his breakfast-which he always hinted at, but I never did, and I know that's kinda oppsite with the LRT, but it's 180 for me, so I keep doing it?) I've done that every morning, and he says thank you, but when we talk about all the changes later he mostly says "why couldn't you have done all this before".What am I supposed to say to that? I'm making positive changes and he sees that, but won't accept it. I guess that's why I'm using the LRT. Is there anything else I should be doing without seeming needy or desperate-(that's something else he has said about my changes-I seem desperate)
