Ok BND I am here for advice.
This woman that my xh is engaged to is really starting to get to me. She does stuff that she KNOWS will get to me. Yes, I shouldnt let her but I cant help it. What should I do.
She is writing stuff on her Myspace that everyone, including me can see. The stuff is about my son. She can say all day long how much she is loved or how much she loves my xh. BUT she writes stuff about my son, about how proud she is of him and that he is her boy and stuff like that. If I dont look at her myspace then my friends do and they tell me, so I find out either way.
Today would have been my 20th Anniversary. It was sad but I did ok until I looked to see what she had to say and it said something about my son getting a job and THEY were proud of him.
This probably shouldnt bother me but it does. I am seriously thinking about trying to talk to my xh about it. What do you all think I should do. Guys please dont be upset with me for looking. I look because I know she is gonna write something about my son. It has become all about my son NOW, and that is not good. I want them to get along, but she doesnt have to post that stuff on MYSPACE. Why couldnt she just tell him. I think what really bothers me is she is telling it to the world.
I havent contacted my xh and dont want to, so what should I do.

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Last edited by sunshinelewis; 04/30/09 02:04 AM.

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M:42
H:40
S:18
M:20yrs/together 21yrs
Bomb:9/08 ILYBNILWY
Sep:9/18/08 "ow" :25
Filed:11/18/08
D:12/8/08
M:Different 26 yr. old 7/09.
Newborn 4/10