Living in the same house/sep. beds and trying LRT

[PortlandDad]

Hi coley,

You've met some of the fantastic people here already, and I'm sure you will get to know more the longer you are here.

I do have one question about your sitch. You have said multiple times that you are in the LRT. I'm a little curious about that. Why exactly are you using the LRT? Is it because you don't feel that he will respond to your advances? Have you had any conversations about the R or MC or even IC for the two of you?

Normally (which I say firmly tongue-in-cheek, because every sitch is different and there really is no 'normal' here) you reserve the LRT for when everything else has failed to work. I'm just curious if you have tried everything else at this point.