God love you heart, girl. Congrats on the new house!! That is soooo exciting!!!! Happy dance, happy dance, happy dance....
I know the two of you don't like talking about sex, and it could be that we Americans are just TOO talkative... but if you can't get it out there in the open, how in the world can the two of you ever resolve the issue?
Like anything else, it takes practice. And the more you do it, the easier it gets. It is a phenomenal way to build trust between yourselves. Once you can begin to have these types of conversations, it tends to spill over into everything else.
I'm not saying that you have to have 'deep' conversations all the time, but when they do happen, it's a nice way to connect.