OT,
I respectfully disagree with the fact that you don't think that she is piecing a Marriage together.

Yes, they are Divorced, BUT, they also have a history together, children, etc.

Divorce is just a piece of paper.

I do however agree with the fact that there is a huge lack of communication and that is the area she needs to be working on.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.