DQ, You're right, I don't need anymore proof. What I want is peace of mind in that if there is no one at the apartment then I at least know that it is over w/ OM and she has not meant what she said about learning her lesson. If this is the case then I can have some closure and will disregard all future comments from her as they will be non-valid in my mind, and I mean everything!
I have already seen a lawyer and am prepared if necessary to spend every dime I have to protect my daughter.
Thank you so much for your words of encouragement.
John
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!