Quote: This might work for normal people, Jiji, give a shot.
Glad you think I'm normal CJ but there's no way.
Quote: let H know you are not asking him to defend himself, just how he feels
I thought that's what I had to do!! "Darling, I can't help feeling this way- you're just so good looking!"
No, no sorry to take the mick. I appreciate your suggestions keep making em. I shall ignore any rude ones (as will my H ignore any rude ones of mine).
Last night we did have a little talk actually. It was a bit awkward tho. I have been feeling a bit up in the air since our original thing with the letters. I guess I was hoping for more of a response. And now I've been thinking about it so much I'm feeling even more frustrated than ever. So I was getting a little pushy, saying "so do you think you will feel a bit less tired this weekend then" (he always says the reason he doesn't fancy it is because he is too tired), he gave some non commital response and then even tho I knew better I brought it up again a few minutes later and he got a little annoyed, and said something like "let's just see what happens shall we"
Sometimes I find he thinks things I say over and even if he gives me an unhelpful response at the time, later he will seem to have taken my point. So maybe he will be interested by the time we get to the w/end but I don't want to start getting my hopes up.
So not sure what to do there. As for the house I've been told it will probably be done by Friday. Who knows if this is true. My H says we should go out and shoot all the lawyers and then go live in one of their houses.
