I see what you are saying Puppy and will take that into consideration while I'm thinking this through. I can see both sides of the coin here. I understand what my IC is saying because unless the issue gets forced with W she will happily just ride this out as long as possible and never try to either work on things with us or move forward on her own. But I can see your point that she could just ride it out to the d-day and then promise to change to get an extension but never really do it. She does know and has acknowledged that this can't go on forever for me. But she still makes no move to go one way or the other. A lot to think about and process....
